Friday, September 07, 2007
i love cousin derren! =D
i asked 2 qns to a number of people today.
1st one.
What is your idea of perfect happiness?
deborah - "i'll have to say love and being loved in return. having totally nothing at all to worry about and having no standards or expectations to live up to"
darylene - "happy is being with ppl i like being with. Be it frens, family or lover."
derren - "My idea of a perfect happiness is actually quite a warped and very materialistic one. My idea of perfect happiness is to have all the money and power in the world. To be able to have anything and anyone i want. But to have all the power in the world, i wouldnt exactly want people to fear me, rather what i really want is to be in control; to be in the driver's seat. Very very bourgeois of me."
gabriel - "perfect hapiness to me is feeling contented with everything you have and feeling secure and not needing to worry about life.. enjoying life to the fullest . having good pple and knowing that you are able to help pple around you that gives you even the littlest satisfaction...maybe just the smile would be enough. perfect happiness is LOVE!"
wende - "it's feeling good about myself, no worries, no hatred, love and at the same time, to be loved."
peishi - "love. with friends n family. those true relationships btn them, such that u know we care for each other. even w/o saying" (
she's experiencing it now, hoping it will last =) )
pris - "Perfect Happiness is when you are with the one u truly love and he also love you... Together you guys do alots of things go thru alot of obstacles... Be together get married have kids... At the same time juggling ur career n the long run of your love... Taking good care of ur kids n in the end dying"
yash - "u askin wrong guy la, aniwai mi idea would be simple. no worri abt cash, and i have a smilingface to lookat when i get back home! be it ani1 family o love. just those kinda faces u se oni your worries fly off. i tinks tts good enuf fr mi. tt would be happy i guess. ~ to me its all abt smiling!"
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2nd qns
What is your greatest fear?
deborah - erm i forgot hers. sorry.
darylene - "Fear is losing the one u love and sleeping with cockroach."
derren - "Death and loneliness. Its a bit funny to be afraid of death at such a young age. Only 2 decades of my live has passed and death has become my greatest fear. Or rather dying without any accomplishments in my life. Dying without fulfilling my parents/ other people expectations of me. Loneliness. It has to be the worset feeling in the world. Where u feel all alone and all has forsaken you. U have nowhere and noone to turn to and when u wanna cry theres noone to hear your cries and share your woes. There are so many times in my life where i have this sudden bouts of loneliness. Like tiny heart attacks. Loneliness pangs if u wanna call it. Its so funny when i have hundreds of contacts in MSN and friendster but still have this pangs. Its so...so... paradoxical. "
gabriel - "dying"
peishi - "losing someone or even sth i love most?"
pris - "DIE A VIRGIN"
wende - "seriously i think without money, cannot." ok he said he dunno wad's his greatest fear seriously.
yash - "at the moment DEATH, by the way according to my religion i should not fear death, but i got reasons la, i fear it coz. i haven .. tasted the fruit of life yea noe!... i am oni 18. i din realli have a fantastic strt of my life. i don wish to end it young coz i believe i can make it beautiful when i die of old age. "
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